One is judged by one's good or bad qualities, depending on how many good ones one may have, and also the bad ones. It may be common sense that a person with more good qualities would be a better person to be with. In order to be such good company, the person needs one chance to show his good qualities. But what if he isn't judged by his good qualities, but by his bad ones? It's what some and many people do, even if he or she has more good qualities than bad, they just get labelled by their few bad ones. If you take a banana, and it turns out that it has a black spot on it, you'd probably refuse to eat it. But look at the black spot, its tiny compared to the whole yellow banana. It's what happens when someone is judged, they see the other's bad quality ~ the black spot ~ and just judge them off without even looking at the good stuff ~ the yellow. Not quite fair is it?, for us people and the poor uneaten banana.
